I have been married twice. 18 yrs once and an working on 11 years with this one...and I masturbate daily. Does that answer your question?

 

Absolutely. I feel a strong disdain for women who find masturbation in guys gross or disloyal (it's pretty much only some women who feel this way). No, guys don't need to brag about it cuz it's kind of a personal thing, but I always hear stories about men getting caught masturbating by their wives, and the wives FLIP OUT and say it's a form of cheating, they must not be sastifyed with sex, they're sex addicts (probably the case lol), they're doing something WRONG.

That's crazy talk. Need for masturbation never goes away. It's different enough from sex that it can be used in addition to sex or even to enhance it.

So where are these crazy feminists at? I want to hear a nasty retaliation!

 

If a virgin boy JO before wedding nite, it will give him more time to take care of his wife rather than Jump in & finish his load with his newly wedd laying on bed freak out.

 

i have always loved to jackoff and watch porn. being married just ment i got pussy too.

 

I enjoyed these comments a lot.. Thanks . Would love to hear from some feminists and let them give their narrow views.

 

Jacking off is as natural as breathing

Some women seem to have a real problem with porn and masturbation. men are very visual creatures and porn excites men in a way it typically does not women.

Some women feel threatened by this seperate private sexuality. This could be an expression of insecurity in the realtionship or for some reason not related to you.

Masturbation is the best way for men to learn to prolong ejacualtion so that when they have sex it lasts long enough for the woman to enjoy herself many times over.

I argue that a woman should masturbate as well to learn her body and how to focus on orgasm despite the many distractions in life and marriage. If she can't do it how is a man supposed to?

I have had expereince with women that when they no you are masturbating they insist on having sex instead. Myopinion is that sometimes I want to focus on myself and not my lover. Sometimes I want to fantasize on a faceless woman or scene. I want to imagine new thins to do in real life with her and bring an alternate perspective to our routine.

One thing that worked nincely to aleave fears is to tell the lady you would like her to do everything you tell her while she strokes you. Tell her to stop before you go over the edge. Tell her exactly how to place her hand, when to add lube, what to do with your balls, scratch your thighs,,,, anything. And then reward her with a huge load to admire. Return the favor of course.

This is an excellent way to learn each other and put in perspecteive that sex and love is not intercourse. Sex is like food, air, a roof over your head. It is an essential need.

 

Ah yes...the age old question.
"Do you believe in sex before marriage?" and the equally important
"Do you believe in sex after marriage?"

Sometimes my friend, you may have a wife, but the only lover available
will be the ones on the ends of your arms.

I'm married, and I masturbate all the time.
My wife hates it when I masturbate when she's trying to lecture me,
but I find its the only way I can stay awake.

 

Wow...

What a wonderful thought... I could live with that scenerio... I could only hope for my wife to be so imaginitive

 

i think its just fine.

 

Me too!

 

It is OK to JO when you are married but it is more fun when someone else does it. Some women take offense to their husbands JO they think they are not satisfying their man enough, but truth be told in some relationships the sex slows down and the only recourse/ relief is to take matters into your own hand...Pun intended.

 

Ding Ding Ding !!! We have a winner !!!!!

Agreed and seconded

 

Funny, Sad and so very true!

 

totaly depends on your situation. I do it whenever i NEED it and dont wanna deal with with it at work all day.i get it plenty from wife , 3-4 week. (now that she in her peak) . I've actually heard of women saying , he shouldnt need to do it, thats what im for. ya right. if women suddenly gave it up as much as we needed , they'd go crazy. I've aso heard women say , after having kids , there is no need for sex and ACTUALLY DONT WANT THEIR HUSBANDS MASTURBATING! WTF IS THAT !!

masturbate when u need or want to. It helps you learn your body and how u need to be pleasured to have an orgasm. Thats one reason alot of women dont have orgasms , or say their men suck in bed. No its YOU ! you dont know how u need it therfore you cant tell you man what he's doing wrong.

oops sorry for the rant ..lol

 

haha .is soo unneed since u sex then why need jerking ?

 

Lol

There isn't much sex after marriage so of course....

 

Simply because here our women are independent and not forced into marital slavery . We may not always agree with their independant ways and we may be forced from time to time service ourselves sexually but we respect their wishes.
It is our understanding that in your faith and country the female is treated as a subserviant and unequal partner.I would rather continue masturbating than subject a woman to sex with out her consent or desire.

 

We have been married for a while and masturbation is a large part of our sexual play. We do it seperately, together, to each other, for each other, over the phone, video, pics, and tell each other all about it when we do it. It adds variety, excitement, complete openness. I love to watch my husband masturbate and cum. I love for him to watch me. I love to masturbate knowing he knows that I am. It goes on and on and on, etc.

It is especially great when we travel on opposite schedules.

and this guy is wrong, he just has a lazy marriage. We have loads of sex. You have to work at the sex part more than any other part. Not judging the wife but most likely she is a lazy wife (stereotype I know but most of the time correct). Though many men do not know how to correctly get their wives to the point of frequent sex in a long term marriage. It take loads of work and effort.